Alia Volz of Literary Death Match and one of her contestants Jesus Angel Garcia, plus the Grammys, Whitney Houston, Adele and tons of news this week to dissect in What’s Clicking, including the birth control controversy.

In studio is Lisa See, the bestelling author of Dreams of Joy and Snowflower and the Secret Fan, plus listeners to call in their sister stories at 877-WE-ASK-LB, we offer some sisterly advice and in case you’re wondering whether to bring your gun to a social media fight, we’ll discuss!

Marco Bustamante, the chef from the incredible vacation resort Capella Pedregal in Cabo San Lucas has some delicious ideas for Valentine’s Day–or any day. An attorney gives us a clear explanation of what’s happening with Prop, 8 and we’ve got What’s Clicking, our weekly news roundup.

Most and least stressful cities, best and worst Valentine’s days from our callers, and a ton of last minute gift ideas for your Valentine. Plus comedian Joe Tobin is in the studio!

Journalist Elizabeth Weil investigates her own marriage in her new book “No Cheating. No Dying. I had a good marriage and then I tried to make it better”,  plus tells us about her interview with Diana Nyad in the NYTimes Magazine. Plus, get the inside scoop on awful first dates from Sarah Wexler, who penned her own experiences as a single lady in “Awful First Dates.”

Comedian Arj Barker of Flight of The Conchords and Arj and Poopy fame, gives us a phoner and his POV on dating younger women. Plus, email and text sending snafus, and a call from pro footballer and former Raider Don Martin. And why not to go to sleep angry!

NYTimes bestselling author Deborah Tannen will join us to talk about her recent books, “You’re wearing THAT?!” and “You were always mom’s favorite!” Plus, what’s clicking, what’s been happening at Sundance this year, and who’s in at the Oscars.

Sex, gender, and a response to our sperm donor segment from last week. A listener talks about her own experience.Plus, we’ll have Joel Baum from Gender Spectrum in studio to discuss kids who don’t fit neatly into male or female boxes.

Comedian Todd Glass is here, so get ready for some happy talk. Plus a special friend shows up to review Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. And of course we’ve got our weekly news round up.

Free sperm, free advice, and mother-in-law drama and a visit from Marcus Osborne of Straight Male Friend.

What's new with you? Lauren tries a sailing trip and a sweaty yoga class. Steph offers up trapeze. Plus learning to share—it’s not just for kids! We talk to Neal Gorenflo of shareable.net, a professional sharer recently featured in Sunset Magazine, to find out just how far you can go with this concept. We’ve also got some amazing stories about career change from Jennifer Gresham of No Regrets Career Academy.  Plus, is Gary Busey really selling cars?

D rama queens or kings at family events—love em or hate em? A listener shares her story.  And, advice for someone who had a run in and wants to know if she should have run out. We wrap up the show with some seriously bad date stories and what to do if you’re on one. 

Are the resolutions you made last week, already SO last year? We’ve got tips on how to make them stick–and how much cash they could cost you.Plus, we’ll take a quick look back at 2011 and share predictions for 2012 you won’t want to miss.

The Oscars are coming, we’ll name our favorites for the win (yes, we know the  nominations aren’t in yet–but why would that stop us?) We’ve also got the latest in sext ed–is technology replacing those awkward teenage conversations? Plus—we found a list of men’s body issues that will make any woman feel like a few wrinkles ain’t nothin’. Stay tuned to find out what we learned, guys.